My Story

This is a real life story (mine) I have finally decided to write the book they been wanting me too with the big help from my publisher, I'm not a writer so this will be the short verzion but you will get the picture.

I grew up on a farm and loved life to the fullest i started young having my own family i was a mother at 16 married at 18 life was great until one day when i was 23 my mother my best friend came up missing my world come crashing down and life as i knew it would never be the same, so i went on a personal mission to find my mom got her on americas most wanted well her story all the way to her pics on the side of nascars (Ruth Hoffman)full story on amw. Link to her Video...https://nbc24.com/news/local/jane-doe-cold-case-identity-found?id=948436 .... My Mother became the Poster Child of Endangered Missing Adults... http://mothersarevanishing.blogspot.com/2008/06/ruth-sharon-hoffman.html ....called sr dark knight aka Mickey Molitor and we were friends for awhile until we talked about meeting so he came to michigan to see me we feel in love and i moved to iowa with him.
I was awaiting my divorce to a mean man so we could get married we finally got married and 90 days after we were married this man my husband died in my arms(law jones obit's/Mickey Molitor)my world was once again turned upside down and i had about given up but my mother in law begged me not to leave cuz of our nephews Patrick Molitor 2 and Tyler Molitor 6 so i said i would stay a little longer then one night about oh God i can't even remember we were going to bed and i heard my sis in law scream Deb get out the house is on fire and our room was in the back of the house so i went to let my dog out and she done a 180 and came from behind me and knocked me out the door.I couldn't get back in cuz the door was red hotttt and i thought they went out the front (housefire claims four clinton Iowa) they all died that night. link to the fire and the night that took every part of my soul i had left...https://www.clintonherald.com/archives/house-fire-claims-lives/article_1964e161-9554-5c8c-a0c3-821c61531999.html
So i knew this was it life was over i was beat i had given up i couldn't deal with nothing and i was saying goodbye to my best friend Shadow aka Shawn Monsinger and yes i cut my wrist and he talked to me for hours trying to get me to hang in there that God had something planned for me and needless to say God wtf and he sent me a link that grade school kids wrote on twitter why would God take this ladys family and i couldn't have them kids think that so i wrapped my arm up went to the e.r and got my arm stiched and Shawn told me to come to canada and when i got here we looked into each others eyes and feel so deeply in love and he ask me to honor him and be his wife of course that was a year after but the moral of this true story fubar.com gave me two great loves and im so deeply in love and i owe it all to baby j and scrapper, people life is what you make it no matter what there is always a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, thank you for reading my life story stay tuned for the book.
Sincerally Deborah Lynn Monsinger (Molitor)